Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Rhoda Ellen Jackson with the following comment:
I am trying to track down the mother of a friend (she died this year). She was born and bred in Ilfracome and I believe her mother died and was buried in a church in Ilfracombe. Her name was Rhoda Jackson so I'm hoping that name isn't too common. We have to scatter my friends ashes so when we come down to do that I'd like to visit her mums grave if we think it is her. thank you.